Jessica Elizabeth Opert

“She has helped me get over some of my toughest beliefs and fears around relationships. Results are fantastic, I met someone! I cannot recommend her enough.”

From our first video chat, I knew that Jessica would help me loads but still had my doubts I would actually meet someone.  We worked on self-esteem, body image, childhood trauma and other areas, which needed to be addressed and then everything happened quite naturally. I was also able to experiment what we did during the sessions in “real life” which was so much better than what I was used to before (therapy, self-help books..)  I could ask for her advice, feedback; we would go through my behaviour and thought process. I would go back to applying what I had learnt and wow, did I see the changes! She has helped me get over some of my toughest beliefs and fears around relationships. Results are fantastic, I met someone! I cannot recommend her enough.

-Tamara, Personal Trainer - London UK

“I highly recommend using her services to help with not just relationships and love, but with working on self-confidence and the most important relationship... the one with yourself.”

Jessica is AMAZING! She has helped me come leaps and bounds with dating... especially dating during a pandemic! I highly recommend using her services to help with not just relationships and love, but with working on self-confidence and the most important relationship... the one with yourself.

-Allyson, Sonoma CA USA

“Working with this Jessica upped my game. By dreaming big, I unleashed what I really wanted and gained the confidence to search for it. And I'm even EXCITED about dating!”

Working with Jessica has been a great investment in myself! Coming back to the dating world after 5+ years in a committed relationship, the landscape had changed. Where to go, what to say, how to find what I was looking for....and wait, was I clear on what I was looking for? Enter Jessica! 

Working with this great coach upped my game. By dreaming big, I unleashed what I really wanted and gained the confidence to search for it. And I'm even EXCITED about dating. 

- Kate, Charity Management - NJ, USA

"I went from being a victim my my relationship and going around in circles in my problems, to taking responsibility for myself and starting to step into the solution and into the light. I saw tangible results of change in how I gave and received love. "

"Jessica Elizabeth Opert is truly a miracle worker and is incredibly gifted. She was able to help me turn what seemed to be an impossible situation into a possible situation, going step by step and guiding me to become the woman that I wanted to be, helping me find my voice and my power inside. I got so much from each session with Jessica and looked forward to each week’s new challenge and solution. I went from being a victim in my relationship and going around in circles in my problem to taking responsibility for myself and starting to step into the solution and into the light. My hard heart and closed mind were softened and opened and my eyes were opened to seeing things differently. I admired and was inspired by Jessica’s direct, honest, funny, sassy, empowering, fun, unique, caring, real, uplifting, firm yet loving approach, challenging me and helping me to reach my full potential, helping me to grow. I saw tangible results of change, in how I gave and received love. I felt encouraged me to keep going with the tools Jessica gave me and to keep practicing what I was learning and learning on the job, feeling supported and helped back on my horse when I fell off a few times, learning from my mistakes and finding compassion and love for myself rather than shaming myself. I loved my work with Jessica so much I wanted to keep working on other areas that I needed help with and I’m seeing evidence of this working too. I couldn’t recommend Jessica Elizabeth enough, she is so talented and her way is so unique. Thank you so much for helping me on my way.

- Amy, Counselor, Surrey UK

"I am a new me. Fierce, strong, ready for anything! I am more confident and aware of myself, than ever. It took me over 6 months to bite the bullet and sign myself to Jessica’s coaching sessions. And I am sooo glad that I did. I should have done it sooner, so worth it."

I am more confident and aware of myself more than ever!

At the beginning of 2017, I was facing yet another failed attempt at a relationship. I seriously started to consider to hire Jessica Elizabeth. It took me over 6 months to bite the bullet and sign myself to Jessica’s coaching sessions. And I am sooo glad that I did. I should have done it sooner as it is so worth it. I am a new me. Fierce, strong, ready for anything. The sessions were an eye opening for me. We uncovered things from my past that has had a huge input in my life and I didn’t even realise that. Things that were holding me back from truly opening myself to the possibility of entering into a healthy relationship. It was hard at times to face my own demons but in the end so worth the work. I love Jessica’s no-nonsense approach. She tells you exactly how it is. There is no place for bullshit. At the same time, she is caring, loving and honest.

If you consider hiring Jessica. DO IT!!! It is so worth it. This is going to be the best investment you can do.

-Ewelina, Facilities Manager, Scotland UK

"Jessica's thoughtful and energising approach cut through all our old stories and wounds and helped us to focus on our power to change. She presented tangible strategies that made us stop and think about how we were communicating and what we wanted from our relationship."

After more than 10 years of marriage and two children we were more surviving, than living. We tag teamed our weekends and social calendars so we could each get respite but we had forgotten how to do things together, and what we valued and respected in one another.

Jessica's thoughtful and energising approach cut through all our old stories and wounds and helped us to focus on our power to change. She presented tangible strategies that made us stop and think about how we were communicating and what we wanted from our relationship.

We’ve found facing up to and making changes in our lives really hard work. It is taking courage, perseverance and a lot of patience to stick to our new path. But it is absolutely the right path for us. 

Jessica challenged us on the important stuff, shone a light on our limiting beliefs and she helped us work out how to connect again.  She also offered us amazing support and warmth and stayed with us even when we were falling off the wagon. 

Jessica has given us a load of tools and strategies to get us back on track when we hit a bump in the road. I wouldn’t hesitate in recommending her if you are looking to make a change. The hardest bit is reaching out for help, Jessica takes care of the rest.

- Susan & Ian,  PR & Sales Directors, Surrey UK

"I am now, for the first time in years, in a relationship so amazing... I pinch myself daily!  Hire Jessica. Do it now!"

Hire Jessica. Do it now!  Seriously, my coaching time with Jessica was the most influential coaching I’ve ever received. I am now, for the first time in years, in a relationship so amazing.. I pinch mysefl daily!  Little did I know, that our work together was going to help me in EVERY area of my life to show up more authentically, honestly, and 100% me. Jessica helped me to dig through some old muck that was holding me back in relationships, but in turn was keeping me from knowing a deeper level of self-worth in every aspect of my life. That work alone made her coaching fees 1000x times worth it. Jessica will tell you flat out that she's not gonna help you get a boyfriend by the end of the coaching, but she is going to help you love and support yourself in the dating journey (and everywhere else by extension). I still feel myself drawn back to our conversations, my notes and any bit of content I can get from her. Navigating the dating world, and frankly the world that continues to tell us that we're not good enough, can be dicey, but with Jessica's help, I feel like I can take it on and be my boss self in this area of my life as well.
Hire her now. You won't regret it.

- Katie, Organizational Leader, Seattle USA

I remember trying to decide if I should hire Jessica… Would it be worth it? The answer was, hell yes. I was newly in the first proper relationship, in years.  In my opening words to Jessica, I was terrified. I said ‘I'm going to f@$k this up and I really didn’t want to!’.  The next few months were eye opening and life changing. Working with Jessica was one of the best things to come out of 2017.

Before speaking to Jessica, I had got so much out of her dating webinars, I knew she already put things in a way I could connect with. I then started dating an old friend, whom I really cared about and respected. I realized that I’d got better at dating but it had been so long since I had been with someone and in a proper relationship (and was lugging about so much baggage) that I was totally freaking out all the time, had no idea what I was doing.  In my opening words to Jessica, was terrified I said ‘I was going to f@$£ this up and I really didn’t want to!’. 

The next few months were eye opening.  It’s so hard to describe just how she turned my life around.  What made it so amazing is she really gets to know you. Everything is in the context of your situation and is really practical. I had totally messed up a conversation with my then new boyfriend. She taught me how to approach it very differently. It seemed so alien to me but I figured my way wasn’t working so I tried… and it worked! It was the most amazing feeling.

The relationship sadly ended but I have no doubt that without Jessica’s coaching, I would have gone into a downward spiral of self-blame and negativity when that happened. Also, without her insights and tools, I would have been at a loss so many times during the relationship instead of knowing I gave it everything. She helped me see things in a different light. Hire her today, you won’t regret it and months later you will find yourself applying her lessons in all areas and relationships of your life.  Working with Jessica was one of the best things to come out of 2017.

- CF, Vice President - London UK

Jessica is right on the money. She get's it; we don't NEED a partner but we WANT one.  That's okay! Feminism is not about denying yourself love!  I got great insight into myself and the world I've created in my mind. It's great stuff to take with me in the coming years in the search for love, but also work and life.

Jessica is right on the money. She gets it: we don't NEED a partner but we WANT one. That's ok! Feminism is not about denying yourself love, she explains. It all makes so much sense. I hired - and loved - Jessica as a coach because she has a no-nonsense, tells-you-when-you're-talking-silly approach to this topic. It was like having a very accountable girl friend! But in the end, the coaching is all about you - not just dating. I got a great insight into myself and the world I've created in my mind. It's great stuff to take with me into the coming years in the search for love but also work and life. I got to meet Jessica in person regularly and it was a great experience. I recommend her! 

- KG, NGO Manager, London UK

"Jessica's ethos of support and guidance from a place of fierce feminism, femininity, courage and love has boosted my confidence, and helped me to understand myself even better, building resilience, with the impact resonating in my love life, my career, and my life in general. She's a coach who has your back, will challenge you, question you, and drive you to do the best for yourself. Work with her! "

Working with Jessica is one of the best things I've done this year, and I would encourage anyone, if you're remotely thinking of hiring her, to do it. In early 2017 I was feeling a bit down in the dumps. Friends were starting to have babies, get married, buy bigger houses. Christmas and new year had happened, and I was 'still' single, my birthday had happened, and I was 'still' single, it was coming up for Valentine's, and, yep, I was 'still' single. I decided it was time, 2017 was the year I was going to make the change finally sort out my dating life.  I am so much happier with my single status, and know that, when I meet a man who would be a great life partner for me, I'll be better equipped to spot him and start a life with him. I spent 4 months of this year working closely with Jessica, using her excellent tools and exercises, overhauling my online dating profile, coming to terms with the patterns in myself, and changing the beliefs I had which were holding me back. Jessica's ethos of support and guidance from a place of fierce feminism, femininity, courage and love has boosted my confidence, and helped me to understand myself even better, building resilience, with the impact resonating in my love life, my career, and my life in general. She's a coach who has your back, will challenge you, question you, and drive you to do the best for yourself. Work with her! 

-Ruthie, COO - London UK

"A truly remarkable, loving, honest, caring, no BS taking mentor. Offering compassion and clarity that I have not experience in other coaching I participated in. Jessica, from the bottom of my heart and I am deeply moved and grateful for all of your support. Ladies this will be one of the best investment you will make this year, do it. Highly recommended."

Where to begin?  I'm saddened tonight as I have finished 6 difficult, intriguing, life changing, wonderful months work, with Jessica. A truly remarkable, loving, honest, caring, no BS taking mentor. Offering compassion and clarity that I have not experience in other coaching I participated in. This wasn't an easy task to undertake, but with Jessica's guidance it was possible.I feel blessed to have stumbled upon her 5 Shifts webinar during yet a another disappointment from a shitty guy. In our coaching work together, she helped me recognize that I am my own hero and have all the love, abundance and happiness within me.

Jessica from the bottom of my heart and I am deeply moved and grateful for all of your support. Ladies this will be one of the best investment you will make this year, do it. Highly recommended.

- Sian, CSR, Dublin

“On a 6 month journey from infidelity and sadness, to connection and laughter, Jessica showed us what it is truly means to love and be loved"   

If you're serious about delving into the extraordinary depths of your relationships - both with yourself and others - then there is no better hand to hold than Jessica's. On a six month journey from infidelity and sadness to connection and laughter, Jessica showed us aspects of ourselves that made utter sense, surprised and delighted, confounded and terrified, but she kept walking with us until it all fitted together and made up a new picture of what it truly means to love and be loved. Jessica should be a mandatory part of everyone's education.

-Louisa & Bernie, Music Producers, Kent UK

WE have each other BACK! Back from the brink, back in love, back to back, us against the world, united again!