You might be wondering why this Love Letter is coming a good week and half after the ball dropped? That first week of the year is a social media frenzy of ‘New Year, New You’ goal smashing inspirational paraphernalia, which can help to kick start the 2023 momentum however it fades from the news cycle on your timeline, fast. If you are anything like me, I start off very strong on January 1st, and quickly and surely the resolve that resolutions take, can wane. So think of this weeks Love Letter, as a pick me up before all the steam of your ‘new year, new you’ whistles out.
What type of resolutions and goals should we set around our dating life?
Here are a just a few of my favourite few ways to create some tangible change in your search for love.
GET OUT, OFTEN.
Shake off the winter hibernations doldrums, and step out of the online dating comfort zone by actually getting out to meet real people in the real world. YES! It IS possible to meet people in real life! In fact, in our post lockdown zoom screen glued world, people are more eager for face to face connection than ever before. Check out some local hobby clubs, interest groups, and pub quiz nights and, if you are really ready to grab 2023 by the proverbial horns, check out your local speed dating and singles nights.
2. LET ANY OLD FLAMES DIE OUT
Whether 2022 saw you fall prey to the bread crumbing trend of people stringing you along, or you’re cyber stalking your ex’s Instagram… it’s time to let that shizzle go. Do the work to heal your heart and free your mind to be truly open to new possibilities.
3. DO AN ONLINE DATING PROFILE REBOOT
Time to ditch the older pics, add some new ones and be unabashedly and unapologetically you, all over that ‘About me’ section. My clients are always amazed when we do a full revamp of their online dating profile how much of an uptick in swipes and quality of messages and people they attract.
If you do nothing else, but these 3 things, you will notice a shift in your dating life.
If you know, these things would help, however are not going to be enough to truly transform your love life, it might be high time we had a chat. Book your FREE Breakthrough to Love call today, and lets get some quality time to talk about where you’re at and where you want to go, with love.